When sex starts feeling tense, it’s easy to assume something is wrong with the relationship. But often, what’s happening is pressure—not lack of attraction.

When something changes in your sex life, it’s easy to assume something is wrong. But often, it’s not about attraction—it’s performance anxiety. And how you respond can either increase pressure—or reduce it.

If you lose your erection the moment you start thinking about it, you’re not alone. This is performance anxiety—and it’s more changeable than you think.

When something changes in your intimacy and ability to get an erection, it’s easy to assume something is wrong with you. But often, it’s not about attraction—it’s performance anxiety. And it’s more common than you think.