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Rediscover Passion & Intimacy with
Sex Therapy
When Sex Isn’t What It Used to Be—or What You Want It to Be.
Sex therapy isn’t just about increasing the frequency of sex—it’s about creating a sexual experience that feels deeply satisfying, connected, and aligned with who you are now.
If any of these resonate, you’re not alone.
✔️ You love your partner, but your sex life has become infrequent, routine, or nonexistent.
✔️ You feel frustrated, disconnected, or alone in your desire for more - or less - or better - sex.
✔️ Menopause, aging, or health issues have changed how your body responds to intimacy.
✔️ You struggle with erectile dysfunction, low desire, pain, or other sexual difficulties.
✔️ You wonder if great sex is still possible—or if this is just how it is now.
✔️ You can’t orgasm.
✔️ You wish your sex life was more exciting.
Changes in desire, pleasure, and intimacy are common, especially in midlife.
But you don’t have to accept dissatisfaction as your new normal.
You Deserve a Fulfilling Sex Life— On Your Terms.
Through therapy, you can:
Reignite Passion & Intimacy – Move past barriers that have created emotional and physical distance in your relationship.
Address Sexual Concerns – Overcome issues like erectile dysfunction, low desire, painful intercourse, performance anxiety, sexual shame or past assault with expert guidance.
Explore What You Really Want – Gain clarity about your desires, boundaries, and the kind of intimacy that fulfills you.
Feel Confident in Your Sexuality – Learn to embrace your body, your pleasure, and your unique sexual expression.
Experience Pleasure Again – Whether it’s finding new ways to connect or overcoming past challenges, sex can feel enjoyable again.
Imagine feeling sexually free, loving your body and being open to pleasure.
What Is Sex Therapy &
What Can You Expect?
Therapy for sexual intimacy is a specialized form of therapy that addresses concerns related to intimacy, desire, arousal, and sexual health. It’s a safe, confidential space where you can talk openly about your experiences, frustrations, and goals without fear of judgment.
🔹 Compassionate, Expert Guidance – I’m trained to address both emotional and physical aspects of sexuality, so this is more than just talking about sex.
🔹 Personalized Strategies – Sessions focus on practical solutions, education, and evidence-based techniques tailored to your unique concerns.
🔹 A Holistic Approach – I consider emotional, relational, medical, and psychological factors to help you achieve lasting change.
🔹 No Pressure, Just Support – There’s no expectation to discuss anything before you’re ready—this is about what feels right for you. I never tell someone they have to do a sexual activity: you have full consent throughout the process.
Here’s what to expect:
If you want more information about therapy for sexual concerns, you may be interested in my blog post “What Happens in Sex Therapy? The Real Scoop.”
Why Work With Me?
As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with a Certificate in Sexual Health from the University Of Michigan and a Ph.D. in Clinical Sexology from MSTI, I bring advanced expertise in sexual health and intimacy. There is a big difference between working with a sex therapist vs. a Certified sex therapist.
My specialty areas include erectile dysfunction, low desire, inability to orgasm, low sexual self-confidence, religious sexual shame, and midlife sexual concerns, including menopause and aging bodies, allowing me to offer informed, effective strategies for individuals and couples navigating these challenges.
Why People Work with a Sex Therapist
If you're feeling frustrated, disconnected, or unsure about your sex life, you're not alone. Many individuals and couples reach out because something just doesn’t feel right—emotionally, physically, or relationally. Some of the most common reasons include:
“We love each other, but we rarely have sex anymore.”
“Our desire levels don’t match—and it’s starting to hurt our relationship.”
“Sex feels painful, uncomfortable, or something I’ve come to avoid.”
“I struggle with getting or maintaining an erection, and it’s impacting my confidence.”
“I’ve never really enjoyed sex—and I want to understand why.”
“We’re great partners, but we feel more like roommates than lovers.”
“Since menopause, everything has changed and I don’t know how to reconnect with my body.”
“I feel shame, anxiety, or guilt when it comes to sex.”
“We’re stuck in a rut and need help bringing intimacy back.”
“I’m not sure how to talk to my partner about what I want or need.”
Intimacy therapy is a safe, supportive space where we can explore your concerns without judgment—and help you move toward a more connected, confident, and fulfilling sex life.
Common Problems
I help individuals and couples navigate a wide range of challenges related to desire, intimacy, and sexual functioning. Some of the most common reasons people reach out include:
Low libido/sexual desire
Desire differences in long-term relationships
Erectile dysfunction or performance anxiety
Rebuilding intimacy after infidelity or betrayal
Pain during sex (such as post-menopausal pain or vaginismus)
Difficulty reaching orgasm or inability to reach orgasm
Lack of sexual satisfaction
Low sexual self-confidence
Wanting to learn how to be a better sex partner
Premature ejaculation
Sexual shame, anxiety, or body image concerns
Navigating sex after illness, trauma, or medical treatment (e.g., cancer, childbirth)
Lack of emotional connection affecting physical intimacy
Sexual avoidance or feeling “shut down” sexually
Questions about sexual identity, orientation, or preferences
Sexual boredom or lack of variety leading to frustration
Whether the issue is emotional, physical, relational, or a combination, we can explore what’s not working—and what’s possible.
Kansas City Sex Therapy
If you live in or near the Kansas City metro area and want an in-person appointment to address your sexual intimacy, my Leawood, KS office is minutes from I 435 and Nall Ave.
Virtual Therapy for Sexual Concerns
If you live in rural Kansas, or anywhere in Missouri, Vermont, Florida, or New York… great news! We can work together via telehealth to address your sexual concerns and desires. And even better news … the research shows there is no difference in therapy success between in-person and online therapy sessions.
Are You Ready to Get Started?
If you are ready to create the sexual intimacy you deeply want, let’s get started. I want to help you to create YOUR BEST LIFE.
Frequently Asked Questions
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We will work together to identify and change thoughts and behaviors that are interfering with your sexual life and help you to create a healthy and fulfilling sex life - based on what you want and need.
A lot of what I do is addressing underlying causes for problems such as low desire, pain with intercourse and erectile dysfunction. Then, I provide information to help you move forward with your sex life.
I teach individuals and couples how to get in touch with their own sexuality and provide the tools to help them create a mutually pleasurable sex life.
I never tell someone to do something sexually and no sexual activity occurs during a session. Sex therapy is talk therapy, meaning we “talk” about sexual health.
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Individual sessions involve us talking about the things that are most important to you. I intentionally create a relaxed, safe and supportive environment so you feel comfortable talking and sharing your thoughts and feelings.
Although I have a rough plan of the roadmap I think is most effective to help you, I gear each session to what you need most to talk about that day.
Typically, we spend time exploring your past and how that impacts your current beliefs and behaviors. We also set mutually agreed upon goals to guide the process, or roadmap we’ll use during therapy to make the life transformation you want.
I believe that therapy is a relationship. I work hard to ensure we are building the type of nonjudgemental connection that will help you find success in therapy. Research shows one of the most important factors in your success is the quality of our relationship.
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Great question!
I am different from most therapists in that my style is very direct. I share information, offer suggestions and don’t shy away from challenging you to consider making changes to your thoughts, feelings and behaviors.
Although I always endeavor to be warm and empathetic, I want you to get results. I believe you are paying me for my many years of education and experience.
I am the type of therapist I would want for myself.
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This varies based on your time and financial resources.
Most of my clients start out weekly and then transition to twice per month and then eventually once per month.
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Everyone’s therapy experience is unique to them. One of the most important factors in your success is your desire to change. I’ve found that my most successful clients attend sessions on a regular basis and are willing to do exercises and implement suggestions in-between appointments.
Research shows most clients feel much better after 12-15 sessions.
I have clients that meet regularly until they feel they have accomplished the majority of their goals and then return on a quarterly or twice yearly basis for a check-in.
Those desiring to “fast-track” their therapy can opt to participate in a therapy intensive. You can learn more about therapy intensives HERE.
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Neither is better. Research shows you can achieve the same results from either in-person or online therapy. The choice comes down to personal preference, along with both your and my availability. Many of my online clients prefer the efficiency of not wasting travel time to and from my office. Others prefer the confidentiality of online therapy.
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Individual sessions typically last 50 - 80 minutes and occur weekly or bi-weekly.
Therapy intensives are intentionally designed to jumpstart your progress and help you to feel better faster. They range from 4 to 8 to weekend intensives and can cover the same ground you would in months of therapy.
I conduct intensives both in-person and online for your convenience.
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Please contact me to schedule a consultation. Therapy is a special relationship and each person has unique needs. I want to ensure we are the right fit for one another.
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My goal as a Certified Sex Therapist is to help you to discover your sexuality in a safe and supportive environment and to overcome obstacles and anxiety that gets in the way of a healthy sex life. Some of the specific things I treat are:
Discomfort discussing sexuality
Desire mismatch between partners
Low Sexual Desire
Menopause and Peri-Menopause
Religious or Cultural Shame
Pain During Sex (Vaginismus, Dyspareunia, Vulvodynia)
Difficulty with Erections/Erectile Dysfunction
Difficulty with Orgasm
Infertility and Sex
Post-Partum Sexuality
Premature Ejaculation
Delayed Ejaculation
Performance Anxiety
Concerns about pornography use
Sexual and Emotional Affairs
Sexual Abuse or Trauma
Gender Expression/Sexual Expression
Consent
Polyamory
BDSM/Kink
Out-of-Control Sexual Behavior (a.k.a. Sex Addiction)